Made it!! 

  • Finally made it to the other side. The hardest lesson in loving a Narcissist, is you LOVE them, but they are incapable to love you back . I’ve been unable to let someone fully in, until now. 14 months later and a lot of patience, from a very special man, I said yes!! I remember every little thing ❤️

Seven Lies For Seven Others

Another spot on Bullseye!

Knowing the Narcissist



The lies we tell with reference to other people.

  1. She is just a friend


Oh no she is not. Whilst it is entirely the case that we will have friends, both in the inner and outer circles who are of the opposite sex, you should be aware that whilst that may be their current status, in terms of their ability to provide us with fuel, they once had a different status. The key word here is “just”. We say this to emphasise that this person is a friend and nothing more so don’t think you can pin any blame on us. The reality is that this person was once an intimate partner and has been demoted to a friend but is very much still in play. We keep them hanging on in the hope that they believe they will be reinstated and thus they keep providing us with…

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Our Deepest Fear…

It’s been a very emotional couple of weeks.. our family lost another to the epidemic that’s stealing a generation… so sad… if you pray, please send my family and friends love. 

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” – Marianne Williamson