When Love Is a Lie


When Love Is a Lie

He’ll berate, belittle, insult, and destroy you….
Deceive, devalue, idolize, and ignore you…
He’ll block you then stalk you,
‘til you do what he taught you
His prize for The Lie is a chance to discard you

He’ll seduce and betray, confuse and neglect you
Without a single regret, he intends to infect you
In the blink of an eye, he’ll all but erase you
His venomous words are meant to disgrace you
He buried your soul down a dark rabbit hole
And planned your demise from the moment he met you

So, what do you feel? Do you know why you cry?
Is it fear that consumes us when love is a lie?
Is it hard to let go if it’s all that we know?
If the bad that he is, is as good as it gets
We must look to our heart for it’s time to reflect
Make him fade into black from the fear of attack
I am you, you are me, & we’ll never be back
Bitter and broken, on the wind it was spoken
From a dream, we’ve awoken
From a dream, we’ve awoken

By Zari Ballard – http://www.thenarcissisticpersonality.com/narcissists-lie-another-poem/



They Say Don’t Poke the Bear… 

I say BULLSHIT!!  Hell Hath NO Fury like The Narcissist Exposed. Another page  right out of the Classic Textbook today by my Ex. The master of manipulation is at it again. … and if it saves one more beautiful, loving, caring soul, I’d go through it over and over again! 

Another Spot on 🎯… Let’s Shut Them Down with the Real Truth


From my Book – From Charm to Harm and Everything else in Between with a Narcissist! @http://www.amazon.com Today or whatever day you are sitting there and feeling such a debilitating and sick feeling in the pit of your stomach because of something you saw or heard that this Narcissist is off and having the […]

via Those debilitating messages that keep playing in the back of your head because you believe that your Narcissist has just moved on and doing so well. Let’s shut them down with the real truth! — After Narcissistic Abuse

Reflections of a Survivor of NPD Abuse

Once again, I am amazed … I could have written this verbatim, only I’m not 6 years along in my healing and restoring my life after the destruction, abuse, pain and misery of loving the Narcissist, nor am I a seasoned blogger or writer but I’m working on it! This blog sprinkles hope around my bruised heart…. for that I thank you!!


This week on Facebook, I’ve gotten a few notices for “My Moments” from 6 years ago. 6 Years ago, I was escaping an abusive relationship with a malignant narcissist. When I look at those pictures, I am flooded with many memories of what my struggles were at that point in my life. “Struggles” is the […]

via Reflections on My 6 Years Post Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse — After Narcissistic Abuse

Charm to Harm… After Narcisstic Abuse

From my Book: From Charm to Harm and Everything else in Between with a Narcissist! @http://www.amazon.com I am going to try to get into the head of the Narcissist in order for you to see the distorted reality of what is REALLY going on in there. It is always dangerous and against our best […]

via   Narcissists – the great manipulators! — After Narcissistic Abuse

Once the Storm is over… 

Sometimes the hardest storms to get through are the ones your soul needs most. 

“Once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive. But, survive, you did. And one thing is certain: When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what the storm’s all about” ~ Haruki Murakami